15 Ways to know if someone is Toxic

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Ever been around someone that seemed to literally suck the oxygen and energy out of a room? When they come around or all of sudden as you enter the area that the are in your energy level began to sink and you feel defensive as if someone is attacking you, even though sometimes they may not have said anything yet? How about when you hear that person’s name when they aren’t even around and you tense up a little because of your protective antennas that go off like a couple of guard dogs at a gate.

Here are 15 ways to detect this behavior and to trust yourself when you experience it, whether it is a family member, friend, spouse, or co-worker:

1.You FEEL it. -Yes you can feel it in your body and your body stores information and will sense things that can protect you. Everyone has an energy field and you can tell when yours is being violated because of unexplainable feeling in your body, ( kinda like when the weather changes outside from sunny to rainy)=

2.They bring the clouds. (low vibrations) Yes as said before in number 1 they will bring the clouds on a beautiful day. This is important to pay attention to especially because people don’t always act how they feel. You can see through it though. Regardless if they say everything is “ok”.

3.They complain all the time. These people don’t know how to be happy, they find a issue with EVERYTHING! This is pretty self explanatory. Something is always WRONG with them, and nothing is ever RIGHT! All they see is the worst side of everything. Stay away. All they know or WANT to know is pain.

4.They prompt arguments. These people are so frustrated with life and are under the pressures of not knowing SELF and personal power. These individual will find ways to take it out on others to not deal with personal issues. These are anger filled people that can be dangerous if you let the behavior get out of hand or stick around because they only know to project.

5.Very Petty. EVERYTHING is a problem! Or they create and make it that way. Imagine someone making something very small and stretching it to the size of your head. These people will hang onto ANYTHING to go back and forth about. The same as number 6 but on another level because it doesn’t necessarily have to turn into an argument. This behavior is simply to steal energy and to deflect.

6.Passive Aggressive behavior. This is what I call “The long way home”. There is something to be said and expressed.  They will go across town just to get to a store, when there is one on the corner in your neighborhood. This person lacks confidence and communication skills. How else will you know they are upset with you?

7.They play victim. The “Who me?” You already know who this is in your life. They will never admit their wrongdoing. How else will they get away with it? Understand this takes intelligence to get this off. These people need to get away with a crime and will cry their way out of it

8.Talk about others. And not just TALK about them. They actually tear people APART!! Please beware with this person….you will be next if they can’t keep their emotions to themselves.

9.They don’t share your joy. Simply put. The ones that are happy when you are sad and sad when you are happy. Anything to not see you smile, do well, or get ahead. Don’t take it too personal. That is THEIR issue not yours! You can tell when someone is being genuine with you.

10.They enjoy your failures. As soon as you tell them you are getting evicted, getting a divorce or that your business isn’t doing well, they get a sudden burst of energy and all is well in their lives. ….Pay attention some will actually smile or laugh. (This is a subconscious action) yet somethings can only be hidden but so long.

11.They try to turn others on you. Seems like their behavior towards you is team THEM when you are around others. They have jokes, sarcasm, and show the underling jealousy by talking negatively about you or purposely trying to have you seen in a negative way.

12.They are manipulative. You have seen them do it to others and maybe even yourself. They plot and plan and set situations up in their favor or for others failures.

13.They love DRAMA! Your drama, his drama, her drama, EVERYBODYS drama! They are truly entertained by things going out of control for others AND themselves! Especially when they do it to themselves, they don’t respect themselves, why would you be ANY different when its time to perform?

14.They bring you down. Whether its your energy, confidence, reputation, etc. These people don’t see themselves with much so they won’t expect the same for you. They only want for their friends and loved ones what they want for themselves. If they have no plans or goals. They can’t truly support YOURS!

15.They are in competition with you. Everything you have, they “already” had, or they mention how you gained weight when they have been losing so much. Or how you are “finally” getting your degree. You can tell if someone is pushing you to better or making sure you aren’t better than THEM! Keep them out of your space. The BEST competition is with SELF! Otherwise its a waste of time.

Yes very likely you have been around a toxic person. While we are on the subject let’s get to this very subject of being toxic. The energy from that individual is very dense and heavy, and this could be ANYONE! We all have family and friends/acquaintances that may seem to put a damper on the day sometimes. Pay attention! Before we actually call them completely “Toxic” people, we have to look at the surrounding events that lead up to a final judgment. I always call this “Ignorance or Intent”, some people, like most of us don’t realize how actually toxic they are. These people don’t even sometimes, know so you have to look at the overall situation dealing with a person’s life and  what they may be going through and subconsciously acting out. Either way your job is to preserve SELF. Yes we always want to help others and make sure that they are on the up and up, but NEVER at the expense of SELF!

Mercury in Pisces

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“Learning and Communicating with Trust” Or “Learning to Trust”.

Pisces are always dealing with belief and trust, yet also deal with things that may not sometimes be so true. Pisces is a sign of personal truths in every since of the word. This explains their artistic, creative ways along with the uniqueness and the talents that come off so effortlessly different from anyone you have ever met. These “personal truths” however are sometimes not supported by reality which is the main reason Pisces are the “Magicians”, somethings can be a beautiful truth or a even MORE beautiful lie. Be careful if you can’t SWIM! The fish can lure you in with their sweet talking ways of relaxation and unwinding, all could be under a guise.

This is a good time to test your emotional skills, coping skills and to explore your swimming feet. If you never knew how to be alone, this is the time NOW! Be without too many friends and socializing, dating, jobs, and “happiness” that doesn’t seem REAL or genuine. When dealing with Pisces you are also dealing with endings or enemies. With astrology, when we speak of “enemies” or “lovers”, we are not always speaking of a person. Sometimes these are places, things or habits that we have that could very well be an enemy to your success if you let it.

This is a great time to evaluate all connections now, so that you have the right people, places or things around you by the Astrological New Year (March 20). Be mindful of staying on tasks and doing all that you promised yourself since last year. All is well! All is gonna happen if you move your feet and GO!

Get plenty of sleep, and invest in your dreams! If you can see it, it is already happening! Take your time and decide what is best for your life! Be sure not to have any negativity around you during this magical time of manifesting!

As the year comes to a close and the fishes comes to the surface of truth, light and freedom ,we all learn to use supreme understanding which is live of the Divine.

Peace and Much learning this season!

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Sun in Pisces!

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Sun in Pisces or as I call it “Shining light on hidden magic”. This is a time for magic, creativity, and imagination….Depends on what end of it all you are interested in. Pisces is the 12th sign and is ruled by Neptune. This is the last of the three water signs and the mutable sign that will pull into a truth or the deceptions of your life. How honest are you with yourself? How honest are you with others? There is a fine line with truth or reality is when you are treading in the deep and mysterious waters of Pisces.

Now that the we have the confidence to cruise through the next 30 days we have light and power in normally dark or hidden things in areas of our lives that we can SEE and navigate through the bottom of the ocean. Spirituality, veiled thoughts, self undoing and unraveling, dreamy love and affection, meditation, the supreme and trust are all things that Pisces Suns Or Moons can relate to. There is a balance of everything or you overflow and spill through your regular routines and obligations! These two fish have different missions and go in different directions, this is why Pisces Sun or Moon signs are often indecisive and usually just go where the trust is.

How are you using yourself? Are you using your “whole” self down to your FEET? Your feet will guide you and show you where to go even if you had no eyes! Pisces is dealing with deep intuition, which explains why most Pisces are said to be “off their rocker”, because they do things THEIR way with ZERO explanation other than they “Believe” and have some feeling about something that they just KNOW is right or wrong.

Where in your chart is Pisces? This is also an area where you may feel misunderstood, where you seek the most acceptance and answers, and also where you can escape the rest of the world. Wherever you have Pisces in your Birth chart is also where you may try to save others or the feeling or need to save and rescue others. I call this the “Christ” behavior, a behavior when a person may spend there time to help, save, and uplift others being a service to them JUST to escape SELF. Make sure that we are doing things to truly help others because we have the time or energy, NOT because we are running away from our OWN Nightmare of a life! Be honest with yourself. This is the time to do it.

LOVE: Instant attractions, love-at-first-sight type of thing whether it be an opposite sex, a new hobby, pet, food, or place to travel. FLOW! FLOW! FLOW! Be in the moment and ride this Piscean wave of relaxation and self evaluation.

MONEY: Be wise with spending as your funds may seem one way now, yet we are full of things that “may not truly be” at this time. All could be an illusion. Pay attention to spending ON illusions on the positive influence of this could mean using funds or materials on your creations, whether it be art, music, science, fashion, etc! This is a time  to trust SELF and put it out there that it is coming back to you plentiful and in the perfect way! In the possibly negative influence this could also mean using funds or materials for self undoing, too much relaxation, laziness,  overindulging in drug/alcohol use, lying, stealing, and people seemingly “NOT HERE”.

Family: This is a time to confront past events that may still be floating around in your subconscious mind that you can go ahead to let go of so that you can make room for the awesome things that are unfolding!

With Sun in Pisces overall we are shining a flashlight on places we typically don’t like to frequent alone, but its most vital for growth.

The darker it is there NOW, the brighter it is when the light RETURNS!

Sun in Pisces where you bring your life together through the Truth of the Divine where its best to literally stand on your two feet!

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Weekly Specials…

TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE FULL “BLUE” SUPERMOON

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🌟THIS WEEK’S CELESTIAL EVENTS:

🌟TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE FULL “BLUE” SUPERMOON 🌟: The January 31, 2018 lunar eclipse falls at 11°37′ Leo Sign. However, due to the precession of the equinoxes, this eclipse is in Cancer Constellation.
Lunar eclipse January 2018 sits between two fixed stars in the Crab Constellation.
The lunar eclipse January 2018 astrology chart below shows the Moon right next to Ceres. This is an extremely powerful conjunction with only 0°02′ separating them falls at 11°37′ Leo Sign.

Minor planet Ceres rules motherly love, female reproductive issues, family bonds and relationships. As a virgin goddess, Ceres represents independent single women and sole parents. As a grain goddess, Ceres rules the growing of plants and food crops, the harvest, natural resources and the environment.

The Moon represents your emotions, subconscious, habits, memories, moods, mother, maternal instincts, nurturing, home and your need for security.

Set your intentions for your life, make your Moon Water, and relax your mind for the healing that is to come!

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